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Leveraging the Four Temperaments

Leveraging the Four Temperaments to Overcome the Most Common Obstacles Entrepreneurs Face

I have personally experienced the disappointment of thinking I have reached the top of a mountain, only to realize it is yet another false summit masquerading as the peak. In business these false summits can be discouraging and even make us quit. In this talk, Wendy discusses what the most common false summits are and how to overcome them using temperament psychology and neuroscience concepts.

Learning Objectives:

The false summits we face in our businesses
Learning how to re-frame the way we see the obstacles
Finding strength in your imbalances
Learn about the four customer types you should be marketing to
Leveraging these four types for effective leadership

Free Help For Struggling Employees Who Are Raising Children - Brown Bag Lunch

Seeing Your Kids from the Inside Out

Parents often feel guilty because they can see the weaknesses in their children more clearly than their strengths. Home life is chaotic because their kids seem too aggressive, defiant, overly sensitive, hyperactive or distractible. Dealing with these problems can cause working parents to feel additional stress in their work roles. Helping them to recognize and embrace their children’s strengths will cause the weaknesses to fade from view and peace to re-enter the home. Temperament Psychology has been advancing over the years and currently can be validated through neuroscientific brain maps. When parents know how their child is wired from the inside out they can relax and go with the flow of their child’s temperament versus paddling against the tide by trying to change who they were born to be.

This brown bag lunch is perfect for employers who offer wellness initiatives for their employees.

Seeing Your Kids From the Inside Out

Do you ever feel guilty because you can see the weaknesses in your children more clearly than their strengths? This was definitely the case for my daughter and I since we have opposite temperaments. We were butting heads constantly and I knew I had to figure out a different way to parent her by learning and focusing on her strengths, Recognizing and embracing your children’s strengths will cause the weaknesses to fade from view.

Temperament Psychology has been advancing over the years and currently can be validated through neuroscientific brain maps. Knowing how your child is wired from the inside out will allow you to relax and go with the flow of your child’s true temperament versus paddling against the tide by trying to change who they were born to be. I will share many relatable, authentic stories from my work with families, as well as my own struggles with parenting my opposite!

"This class has been life altering for my family! We discovered our kid’s personalities are opposite from our own, but now we have the resources to understand them better and move together in peace!" - Kristen Thompson, parent

The Fractured Fairy Tale

I drove off a cliff my wedding night! Let’s just say that my expectations for a fairy tale ending were literally crunched at the bottom of a two-hundred-foot river canyon!

Princess Ana from Frozen and myself have a lot in common since she too had to figure out that fairy tale Prince Charming’s don’t exist, but real-life Fixer Uppers are where true love lies. Over ninety percent of marital strife can be traced back to unrealistic expectations.

Knowing your own true design as well as your spouse’s will illuminate the unrealistic expectations that could be lurking in your marriage.

Team Building - Schools, Corporations, Churches

Wendy Gossett, Relationship and Temperament Specialist has worked with many Fortune 500 Companies as a trainer and facilitator to help employees gain self-awareness, as well as an understanding of their co-workers. In addition to her expertise in the area of temperament, Wendy has a master’s degree in education, with over 20 years of experience in all areas of training. She can custom design a three hour workshop or a three day retreat full of meaningful, inclusive learning and interaction that is engaging for all personality types..

Team members will:

Take the Inner Drive Assessment to find out which psychological functions or strengths they prefer.
Learn about and discover the psychological functions or strengths of their co-workers.
Gain a common language for instant camaraderie and accelerated team work.
Learn continued respect for each other’s uniqueness.
Enjoy motivational group interaction and discussion.
Take away valuable materials and job aids they can reference continuously.

Team Building Workshops are for schools, corporations, or churches of six or more employees and are a minimum of two hours but can be expanded into a time frame that works best for your organization. Team Building Workshops can be faith-based or non-faith based.

“My staff and I very much enjoyed the training on temperaments. It opened our eyes to our strengths and growth areas and provided us with tools to be better friends, parents, and teachers. We left feeling so encouraged and equipped to reach the children that are in our care.” – Amy Shipman, Director, Living Way Preschool

"My staff and I very much enjoyed the training on temperaments. It opened our eyes to who God has created us to be and provided us with tools to be better friends, parents, and teachers. We left feeling so encouraged and equipped to reach the children that are in our care." - Amy Shipman, Director, Living Way Christian Preschool

Faithfully Ever After (For Couples)

Opposites attract because differing qualities have the potential to make us more complete. Over time, if we lose sight of how these differences are beneficial, they can turn into annoyances. We can fall into the trap of trying to change our spouse. Research shows that realistic expectations are the key to a fulfilling marriage. The only way to have realistic expectations is to have a deep understanding of your partner’s temperament.

In this workshop couples will:

Take the Inner Drive Assessment to discover their true identity through the latest research in temperament psychology.
Learn how to focus on their partner’s strengths rather than their weaknesses.
Learn how their partner thinks and what motivates them.
Discover their greatest needs and how to express them to their spouse.
Learn how to navigate the areas of communication, conflict resolution, marital roles, sexuality, spiritual beliefs, extended family and leisure time.
Take away valuable materials they can reference continuously.

Faithfully Ever After is for churches or parent groups of six or more. They are a minimum of two hours but can be expanded into weekend retreats. Workshops can be faith-based or non-faith based.

TRUE - The Relationships of Women

A workshop/retreat for women who want to rediscover and accept their TRUE Designer self, so that they can find TRUE friendship, first with themselves, then others.

Participants will:

Take the Inner Drive Assessment to gain a deeper insight into themselves to discover whether they are the Ox, Lion, Eagle or Human temperament.
Reflect upon the complexities and joys of female friendship. Learn about other temperaments such as introverts, extroverts, thinkers, feelers, rebels and rule followers and how these temperaments can best complement each other.
Enjoy being grouped with others who share their same personality traits for more self-awareness and insight.
Participate in group activities that will help them understand the complicated people in their life.
Take away valuable materials they can reference over and over again.

TRUE can be custom designed to be a 2-6 hour seminar or an entire weekend retreat. Workshops can be faith-based or non-faith based.

"Wendy was a gift to our Women’s Ministry. Before the seminar, there was so much positive talk and we have never had so many ladies sign up for an event! It was a bonding time for our ladies and I know it will last far beyond the seminar! Wendy was so much fun to work with and poured her heart and soul into making this seminar a success! I am so grateful that Wendy gave us the tools we needed to understand ourselves better so that we can be better friends to ourselves and others.” - Sara Sykora, Littleton Church of Christ, Women’s Ministries.

“Long after this seminar, I still think about the material Wendy presented on personality. I can’t thank her enough for building us up and helping us embrace who God created us to be! Finding out I was a rare personality type helped me answer many questions I have had over the years about myself, my family and my friendships." - Stacy Gunther, True Attendee